true friends are meant to be honest

hello assalamualaikum

hmm, im quite sad today,

true friends are supposed to be honest to us, right? they are meant to tell us the truth, to be frank with us and feel free to say anything to us, that is true friends right? a true friend is a friend that stays with u us whether we are at ease or going through hardship.

what happened to me is not a big deal actually, but it made me think, why can't we just be honest rather than trying to please our friend with white lies.

which one do u prefer

a = a friend who tells u the truth even if its painful

b= a friend who tells you lies in order to please u

i honestly prefer A, even though it hurts, some things are meant to be known in order for us to avoid being hurt in the future

plus, who else should tell us the truth other than our friends right? they know us well 

anyways this is the only way for a relationship to last long and be inseparable. 

honesty is the best policy

other than that of course we need to build our relationship in the name of Allah, that is for sure~

'And hold fast , all of you together to the rope of Allah , and do not seperate'

                                                                            (3:103)

to conclude, all i actually want to say is, be honest to your best friends rather than pretending. friends are meant to be helped no matter on what condition they are in

The Messenger of Allah (SAW) said : Help your brother whether he is a wrong-doer or is wronged. A man enquired: 'O Messenger of Allah (pbuh) , I may help him when he is wronged, but how can I help him when he is a wrong-doer? ' 

                        The Prophet (pbuh) said ' You can prevent him from wrong-doing.

That will be your help to him' 

(Bukhari and Muslim)

ok, folks, i gotta stop here, i got some issues myself, where i need to be honest.

i can't run from problems forever

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sharifahshakirah