I'm grateful for the good things in life, but is it wrong to sometimes hate life.

Comments

Post a Comment

Popular posts from this blog

Seeking validation through social media

Hi ! From the title, yall already know it's gonna be one heck of a heavy topic here again. But when was i ever light right ? HAHA I think, this is a serious problem nowadays, not just with other people, but with myself too. Social media which is only supposed to be a tool used by us for a certain purpose, maybe reconnecting, maybe gaining knowledge or motivation. But when social media does not give you benefit, its not a tool being used by a user anymore, but the tool is using it's user, to stay on it, to view it, and waste time endlessly on it. That is already in itself detrimental as wasting time with no point and no purpose doesn't get you anywhere. However, the most unhealthy yet very subtle habit that i never realized prior to today, is the act of seeking validation through social media. So many information is out in the open and available for us, however, in social media, it comes in snippets and short moments that don't really give any context. Without the right ...
Read more

How to be happy

 Hi, after the last post i just had something click in my mind and in a way, understood, how to be happy, not always, not forever, but as much as can be.  and the key which unlocks it all is something as simple as being grateful. Being grateful changed my perspective a lot, and also help me accept my reality as it is. Being grateful was initially something i felt when big things happen, but recently i kinda learned the art of being grateful for every little thing and that definitely made me a much much happier person.  at first, it took force and practice, to write down three things i felt grateful for that day, and everytime i felt a negative thought, i caught myself and changed those thoughts to the good things instead.  as an example, my clothes might be a little ripped, so I don't feel good about that, i will then change my thoughts into, my whole outfit still looks bomb !  but now, as those little good things are happening, I'm just thankful, i bask in the ...
Read more

Perfect

The title is perfect but i clearly know I'm not perfect. I have so many flaws here and there but i want to be better, kinder, stronger. However, I can't succeed at being great everyday.  Sometimes I'm weak, sometimes i fail and right now I'm just weak. I can't put the blame on other people all the time and not reflect on my weaknesses and my flaws. Cause I'm human and i am weak so i must reflect on my own mistakes and weaknesses.  As much as i am strong and patient, sometimes I'm weak and impatient, sometimes i get hurt and fall down and sometimes i drown and just let go. A little push maybe all it takes for my facade to break and fall into the depths of despair.  But when it breaks and falls... i guess i don't know what to do, with my head, my heart, my mind, my body. I just don't know. 
Read more