liking someone ?
Hello
assalamualaikum
a
friend of mine said, “it's natural to have feelings for the
opposite gender”.
We
were all nodding our heads in agreement.
She
continued, “ but every time we like someone, think deeply, why ? Is
it because the person is handsome/pretty ? Is it because of their
great personality ?. Well if it is, it's not that we like that
person, but we are just merely liking that specific thing that they
have. If they were to become our life partner, then the start of the
love itself is already not that great of a start”.
Again
we were all in agreement. The point is, having feelings are normal,
but if it's not for the right reason, try to think deeply, and
reflect.
But
then I thought to myself,
What
if we just like that person without any solid reason, we just plainly
like him/her ?
What
does that mean ?
Just
a rhetorical question , maybe.
Anyways,
feelings, especially to the opposite genders, are meant to be kept
silently in our heart. The right time will come when all the feelings
that we kept all these time could be freely unlocked from our hearts
. Just be patient, and wait for the time to come.
Woahhh
! Suddenly i'm all lovey dovey.
Weird,
weird. Clearly i'm not myself right now.
anyways, it has been two weeks since class started. study is okay lah but still adapting. yeah, i do have quite a slow adapting mechanism.
let's pray that Allah eases our journey from today onward.
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