to be better

 You don't have to be perfect, you don't have to know what to do all the time.

You don't always have to be better either, all you have to do is WANT to better, for yourself, and for those around you.

Life will not allow us to  take steps forward only, sometime we move backwards, and sometimes we move backwards a lot.

But being aware of that reverse or regression in life is the only important thing, because as long as you're aware, it also mean that you want to fix it, you want to be better.

Being adults is really complicated, that's why it's really important to take a step back and reflect on ourselves, on how to be better, on what we want, and what makes us happy.

Although it seems that we cant control much, but whatever that is within our power to control can bring about significant changes in our lives.

My dream is to be a good wife, a kind mother, a wise teacher and attain jannah. I can't control most of these things, but i can definitely do something. Even if its just a little effort for each of the things that i want. 

The very least i can do is improve myself, because that in itself, will make me a better wife, mother, teacher and servant of Allah.

I found a quote that says, 

Saying that you can't change or "it's just the way i am" is not true

Actually you can change, you just choose to be self-limiting because it's easier than putting in the work to be a better person

Find your motivation to be better, Bury it deep in your heart to be better, for yourself and those you love.

Each phase in life is everchanging, how can you possibly stay the same ?

But let each phase pass with you becoming a better person, continuously growing and evolving, rather than becoming a person you would regret later.

You can be better, you just have to want it, you have to choose it.

Choose a better you.