Quotes of the week

 "Life is not just win or lose, succeed or fail, strong or weak. Reducing our life options to such limited and extreme roles leaves very little hope for transformation and meaningful change"

Brene Brown

"Surrendering is releasing and letting go of the past, trusting god to get you through it and not letting things be without taking a focused and faithful action"

Mizi Wahid

"Respect means no one has power or authority over someone else. It means we don't have to agree with someone to love them. Respect means to give someone space to have their own opinions and journey. Respect means to let go. Accept. Not judge. Don't react. Don't control. Let be. Let grow. Respect means to work on your own issues. Respect means to not place your definitions on someone else. Respect means to have your own safe life container."

John Kim

My take on the first 2 quotes is that, life is not black and white. It's extremely colourful, with different hues and shades to every colour. Life is a nuance. Is that grammatically correct ? Anyways, there is no certain answers or any sort of certainty in any situation. Anything can happen. Literally. So believe in your intuition and let it be your guide, do what your heart wants and pray that Allah helps you from the beginning, middle till the end. Because being that reliant of Allah will help you be more hopeful and accepting of the outcome, regardless how it turns out.

And the 3rd quote, i just love it so much because the way he defines respect is so wide and expansive. If that's the case, I have so much more to learn in order to respect people better. The gist that I get is, to love yourself enough to be graceful enough to give people the space they deserve and be unbothered by it. Just accept. Being able to love yourself enough is giving yourself the respect you deserve whilst also teaching us to be respectful of other people too. UGHHHH, love ittt !

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