Part of growing up is losing people
Hi and assalamualaikum Life sure is interesting, a lot of things happen in the blink of an eye, and suddenly i am adult nearly reaching 30. I still can't quite believe it that i started this blog when i was in highschool and i am still writing here until today. Sooo, about the title, recently i felt very disconnected to someone i felt i was so close to even tho just for a bit. Initially, i thought, our times didnt match, or that person must be busy, and all sorts of excuse i made up in my mind cause it was not acceptable to me if that person suddenly decided i'm not her cup of tea anymore. After quite awhile, i noticed it, none of my excuses were true, but what i dreaded was the actual truth. I'm not that person's cup of tea anymore. Going through this situation i think i went through several phases with many different lessons that i think is worth sharing. From the very beginning i understood that she has a right to choose what kind of relationships she keeps in her l