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Consistency, Reciprocation & a Good heart

Be consistent in showing your appreciation, your love, your attention to the people you care about. Reciprocate their efforts in making you happy, compromising with you and reaching out to you. Have a good heart that knows the boundaries of being selfish and selfless. Have enough common sense to be kind to people, consider other people and not be selfish trying to maintain boundaries that obviously weighs more on being selfish. Boundaries are good, dont get me wrong, but dont lie to yourself, saying this is your boundary just to justify you being selfish. Being selfish and having boundaries are two different things separated by a very thin line. think wisely

The reason for having tissue in my bag

 Hello there I am the type of person who brings wet tissue and dry tissue in my handbag always. Initially i just put it there just in case i might need it. But these days i'm realizing a bigger reason why i want to keep on carrying these tissues with me, and the reason is to help other people. I feel so damn proud of myself when it happens I pushed my dad in his wheelchair to the cafeteria, bought some coffee and croissant. Just as we're about to eat, i brought out my wet tissue for him to clean his hand. i was so happy because of that. i made it easier for him because i had it in my bag. The amount of times i was able to offer my tissue to dry someone's tears is uncountable nowadays. I can't really say much nor do i ask much when someone cries, but i hope they know i am with them through whatever difficulty they are having. Through me offering my tissue, i hope they feel that i care for them. Funny thing is these days, everytime anyone cries in front of me, i tend to c